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opening gifts cont'

Opening Gifts

Early Christmas

Joey's mom, Bev, is leaving in the morning to fly to CA to spend Christmas with her daughter and her family. So we took this evening to have our Christmas with her before Joey takes her to the airport tomorrow.

Christmas Party Stash

Bre had her Christmas/jammie party at school today. Here she is still in her pjs while going through her stash of candy.

Sadie and Sasha

This cuddle session is huge considering that Sadie is the cat who likes no one. We have even caught her grooming Sasha. Of course as soon as she sees us watching her she stops and gets up and walks away. All that aside I do believe they are friends and Sadie needed the company.

Roadkill?

Sadie Bell cracks me up when she lays like this, she looks like roadkill-LOL!

O' Christmas Tree

More tests

We are back finally from going to the doctor in St. Louis. We hit some bad weather coming home last night and had to stop even though we were over half way there. It just wasn't worth getting in an accident.
I wish I had something solid to report but I don't. The doctor checked him out from head to toe and is running a bunch more blood work, 13 vials to be exact. Just pray with us that something shows up this time so we can treat him.

Marcus's doctor appointment is tomorrow at St. Louis. Since the weather is suppose to be getting bad we are heading up there this evening and staying the night.
He does seem a little better, not enough to brag about but still anything is better than nothing at this point.

Thank You....

Lord, Dylan's MRI came back normal!

He has an appointment after the first of the year to get his hearing tested and we will go from there.

Stolen Chair

Got to be kidding me!!

I took Dylan to the ENT doctor today cause he has been having problems hearing out of his right ear along with some ringing. After an exam the doctor announced that he couldn't find anything wrong with his ear but he needed a MRI cause he might have a..... brain tumor.
You have got to be freakin kidding me!
Where is the camera at recording this very bad reality show that we seem to be stuck on??

He goes tomorrow morning for the test then back to the doctor on Thursday.



BTW, Joey did make it home today. He was three days late but at least he is here now.

Hitchin a ride

Trust??

"I know God will not give me anything I can't handle.I just wish he didn't trust me so much."
~ Mother Teresa


I know I am a far cry from Mother Teresa but I am so getting the meaning of this statement!
Joey was suppose to have been in Friday but thanks to some thunderstorms and now a backed up helicopter schedule, he will not be in till Monday morning.
I am frazzled, I am stressed, I am tired...................

During physical therapy this morning Marcus started having problems breathing so off to the doctor we went again. He has what is called costochondritis http://www.emedicinehealth.com/costochondritis/article_em.htm

It isn't serious and more or less is inflammation in the rib cage.
He was also bothered by this while at CG at St. Louis. He was and is very, very tender and sore when his upper chest is pressed. The main treatment for it is anti-inflammatories, which he is already on. The doctor said it would probably improve in a week or two by itself.

About the physical therapy, today was his first day. Since insurance won't pay for a massage therapist but will pay for massage therapy through PT he will be going 3 times a week. They are going to do massages along with water therapy. It will not cure or fix anything, all we are going for is pain relief.

We also rented a wheelchair today. He will not use it full time but as it is now he is stuck in the house cause he can't walk without pain. That makes it near impossible to go even to Wal-Mart or grocery shopping.

So between taking him to PT, to the doctor for some strange sounding disorder, and renting a wheelchair for a 10 year old child, it has been a pretty depressing day.


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It's been another bad day for Marcus but his appointment has at least been moved up from the 29th to the 15th.

Take My Picture

I was downloading some pictures from the camera and Bre told me what she always does when she sees me with a camera "take my picture mommy". So I did and here is the result.

Massage

I took Marcus for a massage this morning and it did help. The problem is insurance doesn't cover it so it isn't something we can afford to do every single day.
I spoke to his doctor at CG and she increased the dosage of his anti-inflammatory. She also told me to start him on physical therapy. The hope is it will do as much good as the massage and insurance will pay for it. She is also trying to find an earlier appointment for him instead of him waiting till the 29Th of this month.

Won the battle, not the war

It is almost 3 AM so why the heck am I on the computer?? Well my lovely daughter decided to wake me up twice since 1 AM. No she isn't sick and there are no monsters in her room, I checked :). I guess she just thinks it is a good night to stay awake. Right now she is on the couch watching TV cause when I attempted, many times I might add, she had a screaming fit. I know I am the mother and should have won this battle but she was waking everyone in the house. Marcus has had such a rough day that he needs to sleep. So she won the battle-this time.
About Marcus, he had another really bad day. At one point he was in so much pain he was rolling around whining. You have to know him to understand that he just doesn't act like that unless it is unbearable. I think I will take him for a massage tomorrow and see if that provides any relief.

So Very Hard

Marcus is bad today, really bad. He is so stiff he can hardly walk and he has fell down twice that I have seen. I say it that way cause he hides a lot from me. He doesn't want to appear 'weak' as he put it. He also doesn't want to take his medicine so every dose has been a struggle so far, well until today. Today he is actually asking for it.
This is the hardest thing, as a mother, that I have ever been through. I thought him being sick so much when he was younger was rough but this tops it. At least back then you could see the light at the end of the tunnel. You knew that sooner or later that he would be getting better.
Now every day he is just worse it seems with the exception of a good day or two now and then. It is so hard watching an energetic, athletic 10 year old walk like an old man from the stiffness and pain and not being able to do a damn thing about it!

What's Up With Marcus

Marcus was in Cardinal Glennon Children's Hospital in St. Louis for a few days for pain control and further testing.
His lower back, both hips and the back of his knees starting hurting him terribly. We seen his pediatrician who done some more blood work on Thursday but when the pain would not let up despite major pain meds I along with his doctor and a rheumatologist at CG decided he needed to be seen in their ER.
He was admitted during the visit and we stayed there Saturday morning till Tuesday evening. During that time he received a Morphine IV for the pain and had a lot of blood work done.
Here is what we know......
It looks like he may have Lupus.
His ANA test has came back positive three times now. On Thursday the titers tested 1:300 (something). By Saturday it had quadrupled to 1:1200. Even though all other antibody tests have come back negative the doctors say this is a direct indication of Lupus given his symptoms and the family history of it on Joey's side.
Nothing is positive at this point though and all we can do is treat his pain and keep retesting him till something else shows up. As for now he is on pain and arthritis medicine.

Hospital Attire

Modeling his wonderful gown.

Meal Selection

Deciding what food to order off of the hospital's menu.

Marcus has been in the hopital since Saturday. We are finally back home and will update more later.

For Joey-Marcus's First Deer

Bre and Sasha

Daisy and Sasha meet

Daisy has definitely gotten the worse end of this deal. Sasha is scared to death of dogs and will hiss and scratch anytime Daisy comes near. But Daisy being stubborn like she is just comes back for more. Just over the last 2 days though the kitten is getting better and doesn't seem to want to claw Daisy's eyes out near as much as before.

Sasha

This is the only picture I have managed to get of our kitten Sasha alone. Ever time I get close enough to take a picture she comes running for loves. She is the most loving thing I have ever seen. She even rubs her nose against mine and cries like a baby till I pick her up. Of course she sleeps with me cuddled up too.

Better

Marcus is better again.
Who knows if it is the chiropractor or rest that made him improve?
So far he has been for 3 adjustments and one massage. BTW he LOVED the massage but I told him not to get used to it!
I am still taking him to the orthopedic on Thursday though and see what he has to say.

Issues again

Marcus is having issues with his hip again. It has been going on for over a week now and started hurting during basketball practice. So for now he is once again on the sidelines.
He has an appointment with his ortho the 13th but when school called me around noon to come pick him up because of the pain I thought WTH and took him to the chiropractor. I am taking him back tomorrow for another adjustment and a massage of that area.
I am to the point I am truly desperate to help him and think I would try just about anything.

Witnessing History

Halloween Bear

Bre got this tiny stuffed bear from an elderly man Halloween night while Trick-or-Treating. She has held it close ever since.

Monkey Girl

This may be fine for the playground but she done it the other day in Burger King! Yeah those gold metal poles designed to keep customers in a straight line became Bre's jungle gym!

The Loot

Bre with more candy than one little girl could ever possibly need.

Grandmas

Marcus and Bre with great-grandma Pennington
Bre with grandma Ward

Halloween 2008

Marcus, Cody, and Bre

'After Party'

After the Halloween party the kids all went outside to play. Here are a few shots from that.